I received word this morning from my niece Kari Ann that my sister Vivian has passed on. She is my little sister and was 67. She was plagued by many health issues and the long trip to visit me was too much for her to make so I had not seen here in years. I still have my younger full sister Betty Ann and all our half brothers and sisters but I have not seen most of them in many years.
There is no doubt that I will not be allowed to be go to Turtle Mountain for Vivian and her family.
At times like this the powerlessness of being here seems most overwhelming. When my father passed on and my sister Robin and brother Alan I was not allowed to go see them off and say goodbye and those are painful memories for me.
Vivian died from complications of Diabetes. A disease I have and many of our family and our relatives in other tribal nations suffer with.
I will have to try to fill my time with remembering her as a little girl and as a beautiful young woman. She was 27 when I came to prison. I regret that I cannot be there for her and our family now.
It is 2000 miles from my cell here in Florida to my home in Turtle Mountain, North Dakota and more then a thirty hour drive in a good car so family visits have been very rare for me.
And I feel powerless to help the family now. Vivian was married to a migrant farm worker and I know they had no money and I think her children have mostly followed that line of work so are also without any savings to help. I wish I could help to pay for her funeral and for people to get there. I will only hear about her funeral when it is long over and someone comes to visit me sometime in the future.
I have rarely asked for donations to help with family matters but will ask you now. If any of you, my friends, are able to and would want to donate to her funeral expenses I would be deeply grateful.
I know she left the nation to follow the picking seasons and doubt that the tribe has the money to bring her home to be put to rest with our family. As the older brother I should have been able to help her more over the years.
If you can help please contact my son Chauncey at this email address email@example.com and he will forward any donations to Vivian’s family or provide you with the right address.
Thank You for any help you might be able to give to us. Feeling more powerless then usual today. It seems that nothing is normal now. Even in this violent and chaotic place I can usually keep my footing but today I am feeling lost and without strength to be there for my family when I am needed the most.
Thank You for listening my dear friends, In the Spirit of Crazy Horse,
For Vivian Peltier Funeral Fund Please contact Sandra LaFrombois Villanueva 828 Cascade Street, Wenatchee Washington 98801